K J Smith Solicitors

Family Mediation

What is Mediation?

Mediation is a process where disputes and issues arising from divorce or separation can be resolved in an amicable and constructive manner, avoiding the need for often costly and prolonged court proceedings. The process is designed to help manage conflict and provide you with the tools you need to help avoid conflict in the future.

Why should you consider Mediation?

How does the process work?

Step one: You will each have initial individual meetings with your Mediator, this gives you the opportunity to understand:

The individual meeting also gives you a chance to ask any questions before the process starts, ensuring you’re comfortable with the process and issues that may be discussed. It also allows the Mediator to ensure the process is right for you.

We charge £100.00 plus VAT per party for our individual sessions (lasting approximately 30 minutes). This includes time spent preparing for the meeting.

Step two: Once you have both agreed to continue with Mediation, you will begin the joint Mediation sessions. We charge £335.00 plus VAT for joint sessions (lasting approximately 90 minutes). Typically this cost is shared equally between parties.  If you are discussing financial matters you will both complete your financial disclosure.

Step three: Once the Mediation process comes to a conclusion, a document presenting all the agreed proposals will be given to you. This can be passed on to your solicitor who will put these documents into a legally binding contract. If you are discussing the care of your children, your Mediator can prepare a Parenting Agreement reflecting what you have agreed.

An additional cost will apply for preparing the documents you will need during the mediation and once the process has concluded. These may include an Open Financial Summary (setting out the factual financial circumstances considered provided via your financial disclosure), a Memorandum of Understanding (summarising all the agreed proposals if you have been discussing financial matters) or a Parenting Agreement (for arrangements relating to your children). In most cases we can offer a fixed fee service for drafting these documents.

Who will be your Mediator?Amanda Mediator

Amanda Phillips-Wylds is a Senior Solicitor with over 10 years’ experience practising family law.

In view of her experience and knowledge of this area of law she has also achieved Resolution Accredited Specialist status in dealing with complex financial settlements upon divorce or separation.

Amanda qualified as a Mediator in 2018 after being an advocate of the process for the whole of her career.


You can arrange a free telephone consultation to decide whether Mediation could be right for you by sending an email to mediation@kjsmith.co.uk or calling 01491 630000 (Henley on Thames), 020 7070 0330 (Central London), 0118 418 1000 (Reading), 01753 325000 (Windsor), 01256 584000 (Basingstoke), 01483 370100 (Guildford), 01494 629000 (Beaconsfield), 01235 375500 (Abingdon). We offer Family Mediation across all of our branches and have helped many families in the surrounding areas including Gerrards Cross, Maidenhead, Marlow, Oxford, Slough, Wokingham, and High Wycombe.

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Our Locations

K J Smith Solicitors - Abingdon Office Suite 6, First Floor,
Merchant House,
5 East St. Helen Street,
Abingdon, OX14 5EG
T: 01235 375500
K J Smith Solicitors - Basingstoke Office First Floor,
26 London Street,
RG21 7PG
T: 01256 584000
K J Smith Solicitors - Beaconsfield Office Cross Keys,
18 Wycombe End,
T: 01494 629000
K J Smith Solicitors - Guildford Office Parallel House,
32 London Road,
T: 01483 370100
K J Smith Solicitors - Henley-on-Thames Office 33-35 Station Road,
T: 01491 630000
K J Smith Solicitors - London Office Second Floor,
218 The Strand,
T: 020 7070 0330
K J Smith Solicitors - Reading Office 5-7 Headley Road,
T: 0118 418 1000
K J Smith Solicitors - Windsor Office Castle Hill House,
12 Castle Hill,
T: 01753 325000